Saturday 9 December 2017

All cruelty is meaningless - 36th letter to my friend


Dear Khodayar, all cruelty is meaningless. Can I apologise for the cruelty that was done to you when you were alive? Those cruelties lacked any meaning and they shouldn’t have happened – not to you, not to anybody. I apologise for the cruelty in the world; for this meaningless cruelty that we do to each other. Our job is to create meaning in this world, to tell stories about what we care about and to fill life with love and humour.
I am learning so much. I am figuring things out for myself, I am being told about life by you and the others. I am discovering what has meaning for me and what doesn’t. I am forced to make choices about what my values are. Betrayed by one of those closest to me I must heal myself.
Dear Khodayar all cruelty is meaningless. A cruel act tears the web of meaning that joins us all together. It deletes the music of relatedness between you and me. Don’t let me be cruel to others, Khodayar. Don’t let them be cruel to me. I will not descend into that pit of craziness – I will not forget the meaningfulness of your words. Khodayar I stand close to you as you make your Final Statement. ALL CRUELTY IS MEANINGLESS. Love Stephen